Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Everything will change, love remains the same


Why do people change? I go around and around and I just can’t find the answer. I mean, I understand the good changes, I think anybody would. We all here struggling, living, and trying to be better people after all. Some even believe that this is the mainly purpose we are here for, to improve ourselves, elevate our level, spiritually talking. Supposing that everybody once was in a situation where somebody was nice and ‘’became’’ bad. Would be correct to say that everybody once asked themselves which one of them he/she really is. Did he/she changed to worst or he/she was never nice at all?

Lots of examples can be set. Compare beginnings of relationship and endings. At some point people don’t make sense at all. They contradict themselves, say that love and care but act like they don’t give a damn, sometimes even say hurtful things like it was the sweetest ones they’ve ever said.

I’m not talking about types of behaviors. Like the case I cited above, he was always a jerk, it’s clear. Cases like: ‘’ after we got married he became a total loser, doesn’t help on anything’’. No! he was always a loser, he never helped anything. Most of the cases the other person was the one that used to accept those behaviors and now she just doesn’t.

I’m talking about those cases where you find yourself thinking if he/she ever felt any love.

That person that said “I love you” but never fought for your love, that person that said you were the one but didn’t ask you to stay when you were walking out the door for something that he/she said or did. That person you spent so much time with, you cared and loved. I’m talking about those people that made you believe in their love and suddenly treat you like nothing. Did he/she ever felt any? Can people change to worst? Can love suddenly change?

Jan-09

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